At 66, He’s Finally the Husband of My Dreams
I’ve always loved my husband, but now that we are older and in our 60s, I definitely hate him less. Maybe I shouldn’t have had to wait 33 years — a third of a century — to hate my husband less, but time has been good to him. And it’s not just that he …
When Deportation Occurs Without Trials
More from our inbox: Harvard’s DefianceCuts to Meals on WheelsThe border wall in Ciudad Juárez, Mexico, in February.Credit…Alejandro Cegarra for The New York TimesTo the Editor: Re “Brushing Off Due Process for Migrants” (news analysis, front page …
Our Dad, Leonard Bernstein, Would Want His Music Played at the Kennedy Center
Our father, the composer and conductor Leonard Bernstein, liked to tell us about the time Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis called to ask him to be the first executive director of the Kennedy Center in Washington, which was being built as a memorial to her …
China Wants to Silence My Organization. Why Is Trump Doing It?
In February 2020, weeks before Covid-19 paralyzed the world, the Radio Free Asia reporter Jane Tang received a panicked text from a source in Wuhan, China: “They are following me,” the message read. “I’m too scared to move.” Ms. Tang had been …
What Medicaid Cuts Would Do to My Rural Hospital
If you have ever felt stress after passing a highway sign warning, “No gas next 90 miles,” you understand the importance of my hospital. I am the chief executive of Lincoln Health, a 25-bed county-owned hospital in Hugo, Colo., a town of about 800 …
A House That Reimagines English Country Style
IN 2017, WHEN the British designer Faye Toogood, already the mother of one, learned that she was pregnant with twins, she found herself craving more space and privacy than life in central London allowed. And so, along with her husband, the …
My Girlfriend Won’t Introduce Me to Her Children or Friends. Help!
Their relationship began seven years ago with an extramarital affair, but a reader is ready for his girlfriend to bring him into the fold with her loved ones.
This Mother’s Day, Consider a Pair of Boxer Shorts
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The Fear Factor and America’s Future
More from our inbox: Depression and AgingPaul Revere’s LegacyCredit…Robert Gumpert/ReduxTo the Editor: “I Have Never Been More Afraid for My Country’s Future,” by Thomas L. Friedman (column, April 17), is an alarm we all need to hear. His main …